1, 2, 3

Easy as one-two-three

English idiom



I like the number 3. Give me more than three things to choose from, or to look at, my eyes glaze over and my brain switches off.

At work, our electronic filing system per client each has 4 folders. Accounting, secretarial, tax and general. Although a contradiction, I ignore the general folder. I had to have something to put the stuff that doesn’t belong in the other three. Perfectly logical.

Lists also freak me out. I need order, so I want to have a list for this, then a list for that, then I end up needing a list of all my lists. A while ago I asked my friend Andrea to look at my systems in the practice*. Her diagnosis? Too many systems. She was right of course. Irritating, but right.

Years ago, there was a comedy programme where a father was giving his future son-in-law advice. Whatever the bride-to-be would show him in the future, ah-hah the first two and say you like the third one. Switch the scene to where the mother is talking to the bride-to-be. When there is something she likes and she wants her husband’s agreement, put the one you want him to pick third! I have never forgotten that.

But this one, two, three thing simplifies personal growth and change.

One, you get an idea. Or a goal. Or a target.

Two, investigate. Or get specific. Or break it down.

Three, take action. Or take action. Or take action.

The third step is always the same.

Think about it …

You need to change/do/fix something. A plan allows you take the next step without thinking. It’s like the GPS in your car. Without the annoying accent. Although it would be nice if you went off course to hear “recalculating”…

So, this plan of yours. It mustn’t be the blueprint for the rest of your life. It must be something that you can start putting into action IMMEDIATELY. And that action will bring you closer to whatever you have chosen.

And it must ONLY have 3 steps. Sure, each step can have sub-steps to it, but ONLY 3 main steps.

For example;

debt has spiralled out of control                    or            your new business needs new clients

1. make a list of everything you owe                             1. make a list of everyone you know

2. work out a repayment schedule                                2. get introductory flyers/emails

3. contract the creditors                                                  3. send the into to the people on the list

Baby steps…

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Until next time, have a good one.


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