To procrastinate or not to procrastinate

Things may come to those who wait, but only the things left by those who hustle. – Unknown

My name is Margie and I am a procrastinator.

I make a mental list of what I want / need to do while getting ready in the morning. I know, it shouldn’t be mental, but my brain doesn’t stop thinking about these things.

And all is well until I … well, take today for example. The thing that is upsetting me is that I have lots of files on my desktop. I moan at my staff when they do it, but I am guilty of it too.  By the way, I am talking about the computer desktop, not a real desk with files.

Realising that I am procrastinating, I have decided that it has been a long time since I have written on Good Start. Now I can procrastinate doing real work, while I write.

But hang on, the blog started because of quotes, so I should find a quote first and then write. See what I am doing? I am procrastinating about writing about procrastination!!

If procrastination was fatal, what the population would be? I had a brilliant idea the other day. I could publish a book on 100 ways to beat procrastination – guaranteed, or your money back. I wouldn’t have to refund a cent. No-one would open it to see it filled with blank pages.

Problem is, procrastination is becoming a cool thing. Like ADD (have it) and OCD (have that too). We have all these lables that excuse our behaviour.

At first, I wasn’t aware of what I was doing, I justified it as there was something else that was more important. Then the penny dropped. Well, it was more like Viv threw the penny at me when she pointed out that I was procrastinating.

This is more work related than anything else, but it’s true, there are some things that I must do that I don’t want to. It’s like you have a stone in your shoe but you don’t want to stop to take it out. Or you have toothache, but the minute you sit on the dentist’s chair, it disappears!

Sometimes the only way I can get to do something is to have to do something that I want to do even less. Wow, that is sad. Thinking about it, isn’t ADD another way of procrastination? Oooh, look at that, must go and find out more.

And the OCD? The files are untidy, I can’t work like this (code for let me spend time tidying it, then I don’t have to do the yucky thing). Except for material things – that I am indeed OCD about. Years ago, my books and cd’s were all arranged in alphabetical order. I even tried doing the grocery cupboard that way until I got a look.

I will only use certain mugs, or spoons and I will always sit in the same chair for example. Some say that is a habit and yes, we are creatures of habit. But you know Sheldon on Big Bang Theory with his “spot” on the couch? Yip, that’s me.

So, what is the answer? Well, looking at my computer screen, which I have left glaring at me on purpose, the answer is a compromise. Do a little instead of a lot. In other words, instead of performing plastic surgery on a scratch, put a plaster on it.

I am going to make two folders, one for sort and another for file. Everything for filing will moved into that folder and given to Alex (my PA) to file. The sort folder will be one item, much less annoying and distracting than the 38 (counted them (OCD)) I have now.

In spare moments (short!) – and when you work on certain websites there are several of those – I can go through the sort folder.

Cool, I have a plan. Now I must find a quote. Oh yes, and a picture.

Until next time, have a good one.

Happy new year!

I saw this on Facebook and my first reaction was a laugh. You know how they say the definition of a new-year’s-resolution is a to-do list for January….

I then read the list and it struck me. If you don’t work on your “resolutions” they tend to get worse. Which got me thinking about why they are called New Year resolutions. My own reasoning is that it is easy to start measuring your progress on the first day of a calendar year. It’s been x days, really easy to see on our electronic calendars.

That of course made me think some more, until I had to write. Happy 2018 everyone!

Here we are at the beginning
Of a new year
Celebrations are still on going,
People are all (still) of good cheer

So we have a blank slate,
A new notebook, a fresh start
Hopefully we can let go of the things
That have been weighing down our heart

Take a blank calendar and fill in the things
That matter to you and brings a smile
Life is too short
Don’t waste it on doing that is isn’t worthwhile

Think back to the past, what could you have changed?
What would the result have been?
If it’s something you can still do,
Maybe you owe it – to you

Before we know it, we’ll be back to the old normal
I for one have had enough of that
I want a change, I want to enjoy what I have worked for
At the end of this year, I want to say I achieved

It’s a bit of a cliche but still so true
If you don’t know where you are going
How do you know when you are there?
How do you know what you have is what you want?

Life must surely be worth more than we can see
A few actors on the television of life
Can not dictate what I can do and be
This year less interference, definitely less strife

This is my year of implementation
When I take what I have learnt and read
And only let positive thoughts
Live in my head

It’s not going to be easy, but of this I am sure
By knowing what I want
I know what has to be done, what I will have to endure
No matter the challenge, risk or reward